First of all, Diana, you're not your sister. You don't have to have every thing she gets too nor at the same time.

Take me as an example. I am now 18, I was left alone since age 6 during mornings and afternoons because my parents worked a lot and I always had straight As and I would get slapped if I ever did anything wrong.
My sister is only 11 and she has always had the best. At the age of 6 she got a cellphone while I, at the same age, was going to school alone on foot passing streets and I was not allowed to have a phone. She recently failed a class for 3 months, no one yelled at her; I once failed a test and I got a hell of a preech. She only has brand clothing, whenever she wants (last month she bought two pairs of Vans in 2 weeks while my last shoes were bought one year ago) and I always got the hand-me-outs from my mother and aunts when they used bad outfits.

I was also like you for a while "Why does she have it and I don't? I do more than her!" but the answer is: You shall be payed in your time the amount you deserve.
When I turned 18, my mother gave me a new laptop, a new cellphone (an Android, pretty recent), wifi and my father gave me 200€ to spend whatever way I wanted and I've been getting more freedom as well. So, in my point of view, I am being payed. It took a while but it came. And I cannot complain.

I'd advise you to wait a bit more. Your time will come too and you'll get what you deserve (not want you want but it can be implicit). Just wait, aight?

Last edited by janghyunae (2013-07-16 22:56:18)