My lovely "friend"

zoey900 · 2013-07-17 22:05:06

First of all hello everyone!I'm sorry to post this here but I'm just in need of some advices.I have a problem and I have no idea how to solve it.Here is how it it goes:I have friend.We are friends for about 2 years from now.This year we are going both to the same high school and we will be in the same class.The problem is that she is very possessive and talks to me about stuff that well...I am not interested in.In other words they are boring.YES!BORING!I don't want to tell her that but I just can't take it anymore!!!And it's not only this.Mostly when we talk at the phone she is the one who talks the most.I feel like I am just her slave which is forced to listen to all things she says.Don't get me wrong I like to listen but I want to talk too not only her and talk about something that I actually like.I asked her if possible sometimes to change the subjects about we talk but she doesn't listen to me and still talks about what she wants.Today she asked me on facebook with who I will stay in the bench and I answered her that I don't know yet.After this she told me to stay with her but actually the truth is that I want to stay with someone else and I don't know how to tell her about it.I'm very afraid. intr

angelfire · 2013-07-17 23:45:11

Let her know. It sounds like she somewhat of a close friend. And if she truely is, then she would understand. And take it one step at a time. Start with the subject that you two talk about.
Say something like:
When you talk about the things that you like i feel as though i dont get to talk about what i like.

Then if that situation gets better, then say that you should be able to also talk to her about things and she to you.

zoey900 · 2013-07-18 11:45:57

Thank you very much for taking your time to answer this.I'll try your advice since today she will call me to walk in the park.I hope everything will be ok.Thank you again!

angelfire · 2013-07-18 13:00:50

No problem! Let me know what happens, 'kay?

sani · 2013-07-20 20:34:03

I agree with Angel and you should tell her in a nice way that you are not interested and if you two wanna be friends then she has to learn that both of you will talk not just her okay :) Let us know how things are going :)

zoey900 · 2013-07-25 13:42:10

She got a bit upset at first however after a few minutes of silence she apologized for not noticing what happened.I apologized too,we got some ice-creams and started to talk about stuff.This time however we talked both about what we like and had lots of fun.So in the end everything is fine gai .Thank you very much for the advice.I'm so happppyyy that we are still friends applau