I agree with harajukiki. My mom gave me some movie quote advice today when I told her about my Mr. Perfect, as you put it.

"All you need is 20 seconds of courage and pure embarresment." ~We Bought a Zoo

That's all you need.

Ok. well, I had an experience with a guy a few years back. He was held back in Chinese class, so we were classmates, and we weren't really friends but he talked to me like a few times and y'know, still not really friends and he confessed he liked me and I never really thought about him and me like that because he would graduate earlier but in the end I started crushing on him. But we would still hang out at least at first and- WHAT I'M TRYING TO SAY IS GO FOR IT BECAUSE YOU MAY NEVER KNOW AND YOU GUYS CAN STILL BE FRIENDS IF HE'S A BIT AWKWARD AROUND YOU AT FIRST JUST SMILE AND HANG OUT WITH HIM WITHOUT PUSHING IT BUT BE SWEET. DON'T PUSH HIM TO ANSWER YOU. BE FRIENDS IF HE DOESN'T IMMEDIATELY SAY HE LIKES YOU BACK.

Subway, as an older sister (at least I consider you my younger sister!), if you can't hang out with him, he doesn't know you that much and you can't talk to him often, then you have a crush on him. You do not love him. Love is deep. Love only happens when you know a person inside out and he does back at you. You know his good side and the bad and accept him and he accepts you...Fully...You do not 'love' that guy. You admire him.

If you can't hang out, then you should really just forget about him. It's not worth it and you do not want to get close to someone that might hurt you (Even if he doesn't look like it. If you don't know the guy.,..)

Wow. Thanks, Darkelfqueen! That was really helpful! But, I somewhat disagree, because, in my opinion, love is when one loves another enough to do anything for them, even if they don't love them back, even if they never will. But thank you for the advice. It is real useful.

Thanks, Darkelfqueen! I really hope I do...I'll never forget Mr. Perfect, though. See, we know each other, but, like you said, we don't get to hang around each other that often. I'll never forget that boy...I just really hope he never forgets about me...Sigh. I should try to spend some time with him, but...He lives quite far. Well, now he does, anyways. He used to live in Canada -- He was born and raised there -- But now he moved away, unfortunately. Sigh. I miss him, Mr. Perfect. <3333

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Oqei, just answer me something... How can you date someone you barely hang out with and don't even know him enough to possibly call him a best friend?
How can you even think of ruining a friendship because of a date?

I'm not saying you should or shouldn't but I'm saying you probably just have a little obsession over a jock like every other girl has.
In my experience, that almost never works. The best date is someone who is just like a best friend but with whom you can be intimate too.
What's a boyfriend for if you can't talk to him and laugh with him without being in an intimate way? Are you thinking that dating is all kisses and hugs and all? No, that will bore you to death, listen to me.
If you really loved him and really knew him and vice versa, you'd know that starting to date would be just the same thing as being really close friends. The difference is that you would be able to call each other boyfriend and girlfriend and share intimate moments and feelings.

Now, how do you want to be like this with a guy you, from what I read, barely know...?
That's like being in love with a super star! Oh yeah, he's perfect, he's this and that, I like him a lot but he's busy. That is not a real feeling, that is just a teen-crush.

When you actually fall in love, it will be with someone close to you, whom you can actually talk to, contact, be with; and you will know your friendship will not be on the line because of that.
A couple of years ago, I really liked this person and I was almost sure it would work out but deep inside I felt like the relationship would change if we started dating. And we talked and although she also had feelings for me, she also felt like our relation wouldn't be as good as we would like. 2 years later, now, we can totally say it was a small crush over each other and that, being afraid of losing the friendship we had was a sign of dating not working.
Before that, I had a similar situation over another guy but I didn't feel like it would mess up our friendship. And it didn't. We were friends and then we dated and we could hang out and talk both as friends and as a couple without being too possessive over each other, too lovey-dovey and it made us even more open with each other.

Basically, dating someone would almost be like having a colorful bestfriend, a bestfriend with benefits. But instead of just being mechanical and all, no. It's colorful, it's with benefits because you share a feeling.

I just hope this made sense in any way.

We're aaallll deep B)

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